At Doubting Believer, 2021 is all about encouraging others. In our online class You Got This: How to be an Intentional Encourager, one of the things people have struggled with is being accused of nagging when they're trying to be encouraging. Here's the thing: nagging and encouragement are not at all the same. Encouragement should always be about that person you are encouraging--lifting up his/her/their strengths and gifts. Here ...
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In these days of emails, emojis and texts, a handwritten note is a rare commodity. An old-fashioned message that requires a stamp for delivery is really something special in the 21stcentury. A handwritten letter communicates to the recipient that you were willing to actually pause your life long enough to write down your thoughts, place them in an envelope, search out an actual address, purchase a stamp and get the letter to ...
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William Barclay, one of the world’s most prolific Christian commentators, said, “One of the highest of human duties is the duty of encouragement…It is easy to laugh at [people’s] ideals; it is easy to pour cold water on their enthusiasm; it is easy to discourage others. The world is full of discouragers. We have a Christian duty to encourage one another. Many a time a word of praise or thanks ...
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This is the final installment of the Lift up for Lent series on encouragement. Today we begin the journey of Holy Week, from the joyous shouts of Hosannas to the breaking of the bread at the Last Supper to the cries of "Crucify Him!" to the tragedy of the cross and on to the victory of Easter. It is quite a roller coaster of a ride. This is perhaps the best ...
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This is one of my favorite scriptures of encouragement--especially in times when grief or pain or disappointment is so great that I can't imagine ever soaring or running or even walking without feeling weary. I think it's the use of the future tense in this passage that makes it so powerful. It doesn't tell me that those who trust in the Lord find new strength right now or that those who ...
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There are times when encouraging words are counter indicated. Yesterday I learned that a young couple I married last year found out one week shy of the birth of their first child that there was no heart beat. Up until that final doctor's visit, there had been no sign of trouble or trauma. It had been a happy, healthy pregnancy. When something as devastating as the loss of a child happens to someone, ...
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William Barclay, one of the world's most prolific Christian commentators, has said, "One of the highest of human duties is the duty of encouragement...It is easy to laugh at [people's] ideals; it is easy to pour cold water on their enthusiasm; it is easy to discourage others. The world is full of discouragers. We have a Christian duty to encourage one another. Many a time a word of praise or thanks or ...
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"Fatigue makes cowards of us all." I'm not sure who said it, but according to the internet, it was either coach Vince Lombardi or General George Patton. Whoever it was, the statement has merit. When we are overworked, overwrought and overwhelmed, even the slightest of problems can seem monumental. There may no time when we are quite as susceptible to believing that things are hopeless than we have been sleepless. The ...
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Today's exercise of encouragement may seem counterintuitive, but it can be really meaningful to someone who is struggling. Rather than downplaying people's struggles by telling them "it's no big deal" or "just don't worry about it," acknowledge that what they are going through is hard. Often when people are wrestling with a decision or particular situation, they can convince themselves that they are are the problem. That they are just not smart enough ...
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