Obviously, Doubting Believer is not a food blog or recipe site, but it is about living a life in Christ and becoming the people God calls us to be. A life in Christ is a life of service and care for others. We all know that one of the best ways to show that we care when someone has just had a baby, is dealing with an illness or has suffered a loss is food.
We are busy people. Sometimes our best and often only option is to call Grubhub and have something delivered. But if you want to convey that you’re available and ready to help, delivering something semi-homemade with your own hands really gets that message across. It says to a person, “you are worth my time.”
When I was a solo pastor and the mom of a busy kid, here are some of the hacks I used to be able to show up with food that I “made.”
Fake-it til you Bake it Lasagna
This is the only lasagna I ever make. It’s adapted from a recipe I found in Real Simple magazine years ago. All the ingredients are frozen or shelf-staple, so you can always have the ingredients on hand.
1 bag frozen cheese ravioli 1 bag frozen beef ravioli (or another cheese if vegetarian) 1 28-ounce jar of red pasta sauce 1 bag frozen spinach, thawed and squeezed dry 16 ounces of shredded mozzarella cheese Parmasean cheese Take a 9 by 13 inch casserole dish. Layer cheese ravioli. Cover with a layer of sauce, then a layer of spinach followed by a layer of shredded cheese. Repeat layering with beef ravioli. Top the last layer of mozzarella with Parmasan. Cover pan with foil and bake at 350 for 25 minutes. Uncover and bake another 5 to 10. (I usually take it over unbaked with directions written on the foil covering.)
Are you helping out a family with kids? Take a big basket of healthy snacks and kid-friendly foods. When life is stressful, it is a big help to parents to know that their kids can grab or prepare something themselves.
Single serve mac and cheese cups
Instant oatmeal packets
Single serve applesauce/fruit cups
Grape Jelly Meatballs/Sausages
If you haven’t had these before, the concept may sound weird. Give it a try. They’re really yummy and super easy.
1 jar of grape jelly
1 bottle of Heinz chili sauce
1 bag frozen meatballs or package of Lil Smokey sausages
Put it all in a crockpot and set on low until sauce is melted and meatballs/sausages are hot through
1 cup of brown sugar instead of grape jelly
1 bottle of barbecue sauce
Easiest of them all
1 pint or quart of berries (blue, straw, ras, black--or a combination) 1 frozen Sara Lee Pound Cake 1 can Redi-Whip or container of Cool Whip Take the items separately and let the recipient enjoy when ready, if they're up for it, you slice up the cake when you arrive (it thaws pretty quick), top slices with berries and a dollop of Cool Whip and then set a spell and enjoy some cake and conversation.
Remember that it’s not really about what you take when someone is hurting. It’s all about the fact that you cared enough to do it.
Rev. Anne Russ is an ordained pastor in the Presbyterian Church (USA), currently based in New York City. Doubting Believer provides tools and encouragement for the rollercoaster ride of your faith journey. Follow me on Facebook , Instagram and YouTube. You can also follow on TikTok. Get emails to keep up with all that is happening.