Remembering 9/11 at 21

I, like anyone over the age of 25 in the United States, remember where I was on September 11, 2001. My daughter was four-months-old, and we were living on the campus of Andover Newton Theological School. I watched the events unfold live on Good Morning America. As horrific as that day was, we could never have imagined the fallout. The trauma of those who survived the attack and that ...

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Eight Quotes About Encouraging Others

Everyone needs a little encouragement--especially right now. And because we're all dealing with our own sh...um, stuff, we may not be as intentional about encouraging others as we would like to be. Here are a few quotes to encourage you to be an encourager. It matters more than you know. Want to make the world better through encouragement? Take our online class You Got This! The Intentional Encourager. Use the ...

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A Doubting Believer Guide to Masks

Wearing a mask is the official way to love your neighbor in 2020. Studies (many studies) have shown that if everyone wears a mask, the risk of transmission is ridiculously low. Some even say as little as 1.5%. In NYC, where masks have been mandatory for weeks (months!) now, we just hit the lowest death rate since March--while the rest of the non-masked country is experiencing rapid expansion of ...

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What If It Were Your Son?

What if it were your son?What if your unarmed son had been killed by armed men sanctioned by the government? Maybe your son had been casing housesMaybe he had been trying to pass a phony billMaybe he hadn't been doing anything but walking around in the color of his own skin. But whatever he did or didn't do, he was dead. And there was no justice. You called the police.You badgered the district attorney.You ...

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Community in the Midst of Corona Virus

The Corona virus (or COVID-19) is disrupting our sense of community in so many ways. Events like South by Southwest in Austin and Seattle's Emerald City Comic Con have been canceled or postponed. These are events that many people attend year after to year to gather with others who share their interests. They gather with their people, to be in community...and those gatherings aren't happening. In some communities, religious congregations ...

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I Care Food Hacks

Obviously, Doubting Believer is not a food blog or recipe site, but it is about living a life in Christ and becoming the people God calls us to be. A life in Christ is a life of service and care for others. We all know that one of the best ways to show that we care when someone has just had a baby, is dealing with an illness or has ...

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Here’s Hoping

In the midst of the darkness, we hang on to the light.  The prophet Isaiah said, “The spirit of the Lord is upon me,because the Lord has anointed me;he has sent me to bring good news to the oppressed,to bind up the broken hearted,to proclaim liberty to the captives,and release to the prisoners;To proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor,and the day of our God.” Hope is convinced that God will keep ...

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For all the Saints

All Saints and All Souls day are coming up November 1 and November 2, respectively. Historically, in the Catholic tradition, All Saints Day has been a celebration of the communion of saints, those people who were believed to have made it to heaven. All Souls was a day to pray for all souls--particularly those who may be lingering in purgatory. Today, many Protestant liturgical traditions use the days interchangeably. ...

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Dragons

I'd like to make peace with all the dragons in my headall those dark creatureswho came in the open door of childhoodand bedded down. I've denied them, feared them and fought themall the same, I've fed them rather wellThey've grown fat on my hatred,Multiplied like rabbits in the warm nest of my obsessionOverpopulated my psyche with their kids I'm very kind to other people's dragons,it's my own i'm not able to ...

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Five Potluck Hacks You Need

As the weather gets warmer, whether or not you're a church member, there are bound to be potlucks in your future. Wanna get credit for bringing something homemade without a lot of work? As a long time potluck-attendee (and one prone to sending my husband out for fried chicken during the offertory), I have developed some fairly effortless hacks to show up with something made at home with love. The ...

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For the People–This is America

I haven’t been able to find this clip from last week’s episode of legal drama For the People or been able to rip it legally. But it’s such a powerful speech that I believe speaks to the frustration and the realizations many of us are experiencing right now in regards to our country’s stance on immigration, that I decided to transcribe it. I’m a sucker for a good speech, and ...

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How Can We Hurt You?

On Monday, the New York Times ran an article about a town in Florida that is home to a federal prison that had to be temporarily relocated in the aftermath of Hurricane Michael. The people in the town are really suffering from the effects of the government shut-down. The article ends with this quote from a disgruntled Trump supporter: “I voted for him, and he’s the one who’s doing this,” she ...

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From the Discarded to the Divine

Our family is very fortunate in that one of our Christmas rituals is to catch the train into NYC while we're visiting my husband's family in Connecticut and take in a Broadway show. This year, we were able to catch the revival of Once on this Island in the Circle on the Square Theater. It's a theater in the round where the audience literally sits around the stage. In this fable of ...

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Five Reasons I Love Dumplin’

Dumplin' is one of the latest original movies to hit Netflix. I watched it this weekend, and here are just five of the reasons I love it.  Note: all spoilers are thematic. No actual plot points revealed.   It centers around the wisdom of Dolly Parton...and its soundtrack is chock full of her music.  Dolly and I practice the same kind of Christianity--one that leans hard on faith and loving people (including yourself). When ...

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A Story for World Aids Day

This is a story I share often, but World Aids Day seems like a good time to tell it again. You may not know who Mary Fisher is. She was one of the first faces of HIV that wasn’t gay or male. When she spoke at the Republican national convention in 1992, she completely changed the conversation about HIV and AIDS. In the early to mid-90s, I was part of a RAIN team. ...

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Helping

Tis the season to by jolly and to help one's fellow man and woman. Actually, every season is the season to help, but we tend to hyper-focus on the helping during the holidays.  But as we help, we want to be doing the kind of help that helping is all about and not the kind of help we all could do without.  You may have seen articles around this (and last) year ...

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Happy Diwali!

DIWALI is an annual festival of lights that symbolizes the victory of light over darkness and good over evil. And even though it's a Hindu celebration (also celebrated by Sikhs and Jains), Christians can really get behind its message.  If you're not familiar with our scriptures, we do talk a lot about light defeating darkness. The light shines in the darkness,     and the darkness could not overcome it. John 1:5  the people who ...

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Why Doubting Believers are More Important than Ever

Friends, Now is the time to put your doubting skills and tendencies to work, and I'm not talking about God. I'm talking about information. When you receive information that just doesn't sound like something a particular person/organization/source would say, don't default to the-whole-world-has-gone-crazy-why-not-them way of thinking. Put on your doubting caps. Recently churches all over a Texas town got a mailer that was ostensibly from a local Presbyterian church urging them to to ...

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Gathering at the Table: Potluck Pumpkin Cheat Sheet

Why is Doubting Believer talking about table gathering and eating and sharing recipes? Because gathering around the table with friends and family and people you don’t even know is community at its finest. Wanna be all seasonal at the next church/office/neighborhood potluck without a whole lot of effort? Here are three easy ways to do just that. Note: all the recipes call for at least one 15 ounce can of pumpkin. This ...

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Halloween Party for Seniors

Our Doubting Believer Community mission emphasis in September is Older Adults--in our churches, our families and our communities. Here's an easy-to-throw Halloween Party to use with, well, anyone, but it is especially geared toward older adults.  You could do all of these activities or just one or two. Not everyone will be into it, but people who love Halloween never stop enjoying it. Guess the Weight Pumpkin  Bring in a large pumpkin ...

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Top Netflix and Network Shows for Older Adults

Nobody needs to watch too much television, but for folks who are often unable to get out and about as much as they once were, finding good shows that they enjoy can really make a difference in their lives. As I eagerly anticipate the arrival of Fall Television Premiere Week, and our mission focus this month is on older adults, I thought I'd share with you my top pics to watch ...

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Bible Verses For Encouraging Older Adults

  We all need encouragement, and our older brothers and sisters in Christ are no exception. Aging has it's own set of challenges for everyone, and here are four simple verses to offer encouragement and strength to the oldest (and wisest) among us.      

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One Day More…To Become an Early Adopter

I'll admit, I've been waiting for an reason to use this: The Doubting Believer Membership Community is officially launching tomorrow (September 1). You can try this community for 30 days for free anytime, but if you sign up before the end of day September 1, and you decide you want to stay on after 30 days, you lock in the $25 monthly fee for life.  So check it out. A monthly Bible study and ...

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What I’ve Learned from My Left Foot

It all started with a bump. A bump on the top of my left foot. It didn't hurt. It only looked slightly freakish. I had never heard of anyone's cancer starting from a foot bump, so I ignored it. But then it grew, and I thought I'd better have somebody check it out. Fortunately, one of the most passionate social justice warriors in my community just happens to be a podiatrist. ...

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Guac is NOT Extra Today!

It's National Avocado Day, y'all! Today at Chipotle's (and probably other burrito franchises) across the country, you will not have to pay for guacamole on your rice, meat, bean and cheese concoction of choice. Other ways you could celebrate National Avocado Day: Hug a milennial Serve avocado toast to someone who doesn't know it's a thing Save a friend from avocado hand by giving her/him one of these  Make avocado ice cream. Yum! And while guac may ...

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The Noise of Politics–A Prayer

We watch as the jets fly in        with the power people and        the money people,         the suits, the budgets, the billions We wonder about monetary policy       because we are among the haves, and about generosity       because we care about the have-nots. By slower modes we notice      Lazarus and the poor arriving from [war torn countries],      and the beggars from [Mexico and ...

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Easter Message 2018

John 20:1-18 There she was Sitting in the darkness The sunlight just barely beginning to creep in to the world She was hiding in her memories Reminiscing about better nights and better days She was certain that nothing would ever be better again. She was still breathing But the air just seemed to rattle around in an empty cavity since she was sure her soul had been sucked right out of her body and there was nothing left ...

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10 Women who Were the First People to Achieve Historic Milestones

On this International Women's Day, we're celebrating 10 women who were the first in their field--not the first women, just the first. Annie Edison Taylor –first person to go in a barrel over Niagara falls (okay, perhaps this doesn't fall into the category of "historic," but it's still cool.) Marie Curie –first to win Nobel Prizes in Two Different Fields (chemistry and physics) Lady Gaga—first to have 30 million Twitter followers Margaret Knight—invented the ...

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Waking Up White Book Study

I'm leading a study on the book "Waking up White" beginning in January. We'll meet once a week via Zoom, so you can sign up from anywhere. It's free. I'm leading the one that meets on Tuesday nights, but there's also a Sunday evening and Thursday noon option. Come on. Read the book. Wrestle with the hard stuff with other folks who are willing to do the same. Sign up HERE 

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Favorite Doubting Believer Christmas Songs–Day One

Recently I had to explain to my 16-year-old that No Doubt was the name of a punk band that Gwen Stefani was in before she was Gwen Stefani. Their cover of the Vandals "Oi to the World" makes my favorite Christmas song list because it captures the hope of Christmas as well as espousing the sound theology that God coming on Christmas Day means that "everybody wins." Note: the lyrics are below ...

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No Excuses for Las Vegas

I read and watch and listen to a lot of mystery, police procedural and spy story fiction. No reality-tv or true crime for me. If today were the beginning of one of my books, I would bet money that the retired accountant who was found dead, surrounded by a pile of guns  in the hotel room where the shooting took place was a dupe. Not the real shooter. Instead, he would ...

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Breath Prayer

This is one of the prayers we're doing in our 22 plus 44 Days to a Personal Prayer Practice. In the midst of hectic days and troubled times, I've found this one particularly helpful, so I thought I'd share with everyone. Breath Prayer There are several ways to do breath prayer, and we'll go through several types over the next few days. The goal of this prayer is simply to experience God. ...

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In the midst of racism, remember your baptism

Like many pastors this weekend, I scrambled to adapt/change/rewrite my sermon to make at least some attempt to address the events in Charlottesville.  It's not as poetic or as polished as I would like it to be, but here it is in audio and written form. Psalm 46  Acts 2:37-42  [podbean type=audio-square resource="episode=yswmd-6f22e5" skin="1" auto="0" height=315 ] Today kicks off a series on the sacraments. There’s two Sundays on Baptism and two Sundays on ...

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Three Books With Inappropriate Titles You Should Be Reading

I am not a fan of self-help books. I was scarred by a Zig Ziglar "I Can" course back in high school and have never fully recovered. I'm not even sure the following fall into that self-help category, but I have found myself illumined, amused and empowered by all of these foul-mouthed books. If you've ever found yourself stymied by other people's opinion, the belief that you are not good enough ...

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More About Hugs

One of our most popular posts during the Lift Up For Lent series was about the importance of hugs. If you need more reasons to increase your hugging, check out this post on Jen Reviews.  You owe it to your physical, spiritual and emotional well-being.

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On Not Leaving it to the Stones

On Not Leaving it to the Stones Preached at a gathering of the Arkansas United Methodist Clergywomen May 4,2017 Luke 19:37-40 This passage marks the beginning of the end of Jesus ministry on earth. People have gathered to welcome him to Jerusalem, and they are so excited! They’ve heard about the healings. They’ve heard about the miracles. And here was the man behind it all.  They are shouting and singing and waving palms, and ...

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13 Resources To Check Out Before You Start Making Cassette Tapes

Because the runaway hit series 13 Reasons Why is distinctly lacking in resources and alternatives for those who are dealing with mental illness, contemplating suicide or living with complicated grief, here are some sites that provide information, encouragement and support. Please pass along to teens and parents that you know. The Born This Way Foundation (the non-profit, not the Two-Faced cosmetic brand foundation) is working to end the stigma of mental health ...

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People Are Not Illegal

No matter what your stance on immigration, can we please stop referring to people as illegal?  People can be in a country illegally or even be residents without proper documentation, but people, themselves, are not illegal.* No one has to apply to be a person. One might argue that application to be part of humanity should be required, but as it stands now, everyone who is born gets to be a person. It's important ...

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What Happened When I Turned off My Phone, Computer and Television for 24 Hours

Following  a message at our Saturday night service on taking Sabbath seriously, I made good on my commitment to turn off my phone, computer and television for 24 hours. I'm a little embarrassed that such action is a radical move for me, but here's what happened. I had to wonder about things.  What yogurt chain was the first one to start the self-serve craze? No idea.  Who voiced the fluffy white fru ...

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A Prayer for Inauguration Day

On this inauguration day, we pray for a day when hope abounds in all our people when no one is viewed as suspect because of the color of his skin or the covering of her hair when everyone is able to make a living wage when there is healthcare for all when all children have full access to quality education when art and music and theater are valued and viewed as vital to our lives when women are given control over ...

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Social Media at its Best

For all the headaches and heartaches caused by social media, when people are at their best, social media is at its best. The youngest son of some friends of ours in the hospital following heart surgery. There have been some complications, and the family is in a holding pattern, waiting to see how everything is going to turn out. Waiting to see if everything is going to be okay. It's excruciating. While ...

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There are certain things that you have to see through to the end to get the full experience. My husband once left a professional football game early because one team had clearly run away with it. He awoke the next morning to learn that he had missed what was being called the biggest comeback in NFL history. One time I remarked to an aunt of mine how much I like the ...

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Why the Hipster Nativity Scene is More than Okay

Modern Nativity has come up with a hipster nativity scene to showcase what it might look like if the baby Jesus arrived in 2016.  Mary and Joseph are taking a selfie and the wisemen arrive on Segues bearing boxes from Amazon. There are those who have been a little outraged (if one can be a little outraged) at what they consider a sacrilegious scene. How dare they turn Mary and Joseph ...

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Here’s to Hoping

We lit the candle of Hope yesterday in church. We looked at the story of Daniel and the Lion's den But didn't talk so much about the lions It was Daniels defiant act of prayer that held our attention Prayer that was illegal Done right in an open window where everyone could see A subversive act of resistance that testified to all That his God was greater than the king. That his God was ...

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Gathering at the Table in a Post-Election World

In about a week, people all over our country will be gathered around the table to celebrate Thanksgiving. With the exception of a few people who may have had life-altering experiences, the people you will gather with this year are exactly the same as they were when you gathered last year... and the year before that...and for as long as you can remember. Except that this year you know. They voted for ...

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Clear the Way

Isaiah 6:1-8 It was in the year that King Uzziah died that Isaiah saw the Lord. King Uzziah was king for over 50 years. His death thew the Judeans into a time of transition and uncertainty. Their king of over five decades had died, his son who had served as his co-regent (or co-king) for 11 years would be on his own. The Assyrians, who were heavily armed and ready for battle, were ...

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A Prayer for Election Day

Gracious and loving God, Today, we give thanks that we live in the United States and for the freedoms and rights we often take for granted. We are grateful for the right to vote, and we honor those who sacrificed so that we might each have a voice. May we never take the privilege for granted. We ask that You would help heal the deep divisions that exist in our country. Help us ...

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What We Learned from Milk

Our church does a weekly food pantry at the elementary school down the road. We started out doing backpacks for about 40 kids three years ago, moved into doing a food pantry (providing a bag of food to take the whole family through the weekend when kids are not getting breakfast and lunch at school) and serving about 90 people. This year the number has doubled, and our little church ...

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The First Weekend in October

In my little world, the first weekend in October means it's time for two things: World Communion Sunday (when our congregation ditches the sanctuary and worships outside at a local park) and the turning over of my closet. It's not a major endeavor. Most of my clothes I wear year round--jeans, t's, even some sweaters--but twice a year I pull down the green Rubbermaid container that holds my most fall/winter ...

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A White Mother’s Prayer

I am feeling heartbroken and hopeless in the face of continued violence against unarmed Black men in our country. This is the prayer I've been praying today. Hoping that prayer will lead to discernment and discernment will lead me to action. Dear Maker of All, I don't know how they do it. The mothers of sons whose skin is brown or black. How do they stand to let them out the ...

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In it for the Long Haul

The third installment in the Strength Training series 1 Corinthians 9:24-25 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize?Run in such a way as to get the prize.  Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. (NIV) Luke 21:19 Stand ...

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You’re Stronger Than You Think

Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” ― A.A. Milne Isaiah 40:28-31 During my sabbatical I decided to do something a little out of the ordinary for a pastor’s sabbatical. I decided to focus on physical health…because ministry is demanding. It’s demanding spiritually, emotionally and physically. And our tendency in ministry (and not unjustly so) is to focus so much ...

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Listening to the Right Voices

The trainer I've been working with via web and phone works with all kinds of women. Some, like me, just want to be fit and healthy and feel our best. Others are in serious training for fitness competitions.  These ladies are hardcore, and they often get a lot of flack from family, friends and just random people about their choices. "Why are you spending so much time at the gym?" "Why ...

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A Prayer for Mothers

Today we pray for moms We pray for the moms who bake cupcakes, wait in car lines, pack lunches, juggle sports schedules and preside over petty playground squabbles. We pray for the moms who struggle to feed their children, worry for their safety and hope for a better tomorrow. We pray for the moms who give up their children and the moms who lovingly make those children their own We pray for the moms who stay at home ...

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The School Testing Letter I’d Like to See

Dear Parents, As you know, standardized testing is coming up next week. We here at Rydell High are so proud of what our students learn and accomplish every day, and we want to ensure that these tests (as ridiculous as they may seem) accurately reflect what we know the young men and women of Rydell are capable of. You can help us! a) Tell your child not to worry about these tests. This is ...

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Why Taking On May Be Better For You Than Giving Up This Lent

When I was in seminary, a classmate of mine decided to give up beer for Lent. It's not that he had a drinking problem he was trying to address, he just really liked beer and thought that giving it up was his best bet to to test his discipline and commitment. It was not easy. This was Boston and St. Patrick's Day fell right in the middle of Lent that ...

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Why Can’t We Be More Like The Early Church?

Acts 2:42-47 Chapter two is kind of the rah, rah, "yay, church!" chapter of the Book of Acts. The first part of Acts 2 is the story of Pentecost, which we celebrate every year in May or June. It’s the celebration of the coming of the Holy Spirit. It's wild and colorful and exciting and inspiring. The latter part of the chapter gives us a glimpse into the early church. The ...

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The Misunderstood InnKeeper

I have gotten a bad rap. I’m not even in Luke’s version of the nativity story and yet, in Christmas pageant after Christmas pageant for the last 2000 years, I’m made out to be the bad guy. I mean, I’m no Herod, but still…I don’t come off looking good. Somehow, I became the guy who turned poor Joseph and great-with-child Mary away from the inn so that her baby had to ...

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The Best Bachelor Ever

They've already started doing promos for season 20 (20!) of The Bachelor. Ugh. I can't stand the concept of this show or The Bachelorette. The shows are demeaning, mean-spirited and just plain creepy. I really don't understand how they're even legal (seems a case could be made for prostitution). If I could ever muster the anger or time or energy to protest a television show, it would have to be ...

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Without Ruth and Naomi The Bible Wouldn’t Pass the Bechdel Test

I've just had the startling realization that The Bible just barely passes the Bechdel Test. I don't know why I'm surprised. I know that the Bible is steeped in patriarchal themes and language, but the Bechdel test just highlights it once again. For those unfamiliar, the Bechdel (or Bechdel-Wallace) test, is a media test mostly used for films. To pass the Bechdel test the film must have: at least two women characters who talk ...

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Not Feeling Thankful? It’s Okay

Thanksgiving is tomorrow! And there's so much to be thankful for! After all, you are not a refugee seeking a new place to call home. Your Thanksgiving table is not limited to whatever the good people at the church or the food bank or the Lion's Club put in your basket or box this year.  You are not a presidential candidate. Your level of gratitude should be through the roof! Except that maybe ...

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The House That Was Always Open

With all the talk of refugees and who our country will and won't welcome, I can't help thinking about the Rev. Dr. Jim Mosley (whose name graces the tabernacle at Ferncliff Camp and Conference Center, affectionately know as the J-Mo) and his saint-on-earth of a wife, Joanne. Jim was my pastor growing up. Back in the day, Westminster Presbyterian Church in Hot Springs provided a nice home in a rather well-heeled neighborhood ...

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Sometimes it really does hurt

I took my daughter to the orthodontist today for what seems like the zillionth time. There was a girl in the chair next chair who was much younger than my daughter, probably still in elementary school. She was crying. I don't know if  she was just getting braces on or if it was her first tightening or what. But she was crying and saying, "It hurts! It hurts!" (BTWs, I had ...

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Who Doesn’t Love Pie?

I love pie. I love movies about pie. If you haven't seen the 2007 movie Waitress with Kerri Russel and Nathan Fillion, you should check it out. I love this song about pie in the John Travolta movie Michael. Comedian Jim Gaffigan is a fan of cake and says that pie just can't compete. "Put candles in a cake, it's a birthday cake. Put candles in a pie, someone's drunk in the kitchen." But everyone ...

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Your Rights Aren’t Worth It

Another 10 people dead How many does that make now? Hundreds? Thousands? Hundreds of thousands? I give up. If the slaughter of little children at Sandy Hook didn't affect radical change, why should the deaths of some community college students make any difference? After all, you have rights. And that's more important. We wouldn't want to violate anyone's rights. People have sacrificed their lives for those rights. Are these mass murders just more of the same? More sacrificed lives for our individual ...

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Justified and Ancient…or is that Anxious?

(aka What's the Difference between Justification and Sanctification?) Surely in the annals of the history of music so bad it’s good, there is a place for that weird collaboration of British Band KLF and country music singer Tammy Wynette, “Justified and Ancient.” In fact, every time I hear the term “justified” in relation to faith, I can’t help but singing that song a little in my brain. The song makes no sense ...

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Be Quick to Listen

James 1:17-27 Martin Luther really hated the Book of James. He called it a “right strawy epistle… for it has no gospel in it.” And you can see his point. Jesus Christ, is mentioned only twice in the whole book. There is no mention of the cross. There nothing about Jesus dying on the cross to pay for our sins. There is no mention of baptism. Nowhere does James talk about grace. ...

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That’s Not in the Bible: The Lord Helps Those Who Helps Themselves

The Lord Helps Those Who Help Themselves Isaiah 10: 1-4 2 Thessalonians 3:6-16 Throughout the week here at First Pres, we get people dropping by asking for assistance. To be honest, after almost 6 years here, I have still not been able to come up with a good system for us to determine who to help and how we will help. We’ve tried a number of ideas and introduced several different processes, but There ...

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What’s a White Girl to do When Black Churches are Burning?

Privileged shock is a complicated emotion. That's the feeling that White people get when we hear that another Black church has burned. We are horrified at the hate, and yet we know that our shock does not come with the fear that accompanies the horror of our friends and neighbors whose skin is darker than ours.  We know that we are angry, but we know that we aren't ever going to feel what ...

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Adopted by God

Ephesians 1:3-14 Back around A.D. (or C.E.) fifty-something, Paul arrived in Ephesus and began spreading the good news. He got the Jesus movement going and helped the folks there form a church over the course of about two years, then he went on to stir things up in other places. But not to long after he left Paul got word that the people with new hearts for Christ were back to ...

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God Won’t Give You More Than You Can Handle

Before we go any further with this “That’s not in the Bible” series, I think it’s important that we acknowledge that the Bible is not the only thing we misquote. Famous movie tag lines get altered after being told and re-told over and over again. Clint Eastwoord’s Dirty Harry is oft-quoted as saying, “Do you feel lucky, Punk?” was actually, “You’ve got to ask yourself one question. Do you feel lucky? Well ...

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To fix the things we can…

Thanks to some of our handier members, a few of the things that haven't worked so well at the church have been fixed. The sliding doors in the youth room now actually slide and can be closed completely. The light above the back interior door to the fellowship hall has not only been re-instated (there was just a hole where a light fixture used to be), but also has a ...

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Those who demonize others are often battling their own demons

Both of my parents have counseling degrees, and my father had a private counseling practice for nearly 40 years. When I was a child, my mother was the director of the county mental health association at the height of the transactional analysis era or the have-you-hugged-your-kid-today decade. So when someone at school was mean or just a pain in the butt, my parents would always remind me that the reason they ...

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When it comes to race, some of us are just clueless

It’s time to come clean. In light of what is happening in Baltimore tonight and what has been happening around the country, it’s time to share my story of racism...or what I like to think of as racial cluelessness... but it's still just plain racism. Back when I was in seminary at Andover Newton Theological School, I was the editor of the school newspaper, The Protestant. It was a play on ...

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Me–I’m just glad to be here

When I went to summer camp as a kid, there was guy who spent his summers off from teaching and coaching kids in East Texas serving as a program director teaching and coaching kids in Arkansas. One of his duties was to get on the loud speaker every morning and give the wake up call and announcements. He ended every morning with, "The sun is shining (even if it was raining), ...

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Easter 2015–He’ll Meet You There

Easter 2015 We come here on Easter Sunday with bluegrass music playing, and Alleluias being unearthed and everybody all dressed up to celebrate the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. New Life. Second Chances. Kingdom glimpses. But the very first Easter morning wasn’t anything like this. There was nothing to celebrate. Jesus was dead. Gone. Buried. His last words were “It is finished” and everyone took Him at His word. The only comfort ...

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Do Christians Get to Choose who to Serve?

In Arkansas, HB1228 is about to hit our governor's desk to be signed in to law. Should he sign it, it would allow people and businesses to refuse to serve others based on "sincerely held religious beliefs." There are many things that I believe are wrong with this bill (it has a slope so slippery, you could slide from here to the gulf coast on it), but what is so surprising ...

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Seeking Salvation

John 3:14-21 Are you saved? Of course the answer anyone asking that question wants to hear is “yes!” Or maybe they don’t. Maybe the kind of people who ask other people that question are just dying to hear a “no” so that they can be the ones to turn it in to a “yes.” Several of my friends always answers that question with “2000 years ago.” A few others always say, “over and over ...

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Some Humbly Submitted Rules for Being a Decent Person

I have always been the dumbest of the smart people--you know, the person who lands in the advanced or accelerated class or program and then struggles to keep up. My interests and activities lean more toward the low (rather than the high) brow. So I certainly don't have all the answers. But lately, it seems as if people who are rumored to be far smarter than I am have forgotten ...

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Seeking a Purpose

Mark 8:31-38 You probably have to be at least as old as I am to remember this, but those of you who are, hark back to 1981 when The Greatest American Hero premiered on television. It starred William Katt, Connie Selleca and Robert Culp. It was the show where Michael Pare made his debut before hitting it big with the cult classic Eddie and the Cruisers. That gives you an idea ...

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How and Where Does One Find a Deserted Place?

Mark 1:29-39 In these 11 short verses in the first chapter of Mark, Jesus has a lot going on. He’s healed Simon’s mother-in-law, then before the day is over, he’s healing all sorts of people and casting out demons right and left. The next day he goes out preaching to folks and casting out even more demons. He is a busy man who has many people making many demands on his ...

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10 Men No Woman (Christian or otherwise) Should Marry

I couldn't stand it. After reading two different posts (that I at first thought were a joke) about Men Christian Women Shouldn't Marry and Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry, I had to put together at least one list of my own. So here are my 10 Men No Christian Woman Should Marry The Guy Who Always Puts You Down to Build Himself Up A guy who belittles you when you are alone and ...

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